Wednesday, 12 September 2007

The Law of the Garbage Truck

How often do you let other people's nonsense change your mood? Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive employee ruin your day? Unless you're the Terminator, for an instant you're probably set back on your heels. However, the mark of a successful person is how quickly she can get back her focus on what's important.

Learned it in the back of a Harare City taxi cab. Here's what happened. I hopped in a taxi, and we took off for Westgate. We were driving when all of a sudden a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car's back end by just inches!

Here's what happened next. The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused a big accident, whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at us. How do I know? Ask any Zimbabwean - some words in Harare come with a special face. Now, here's what blew me away. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was friendly. So, I said, "Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!" And this is when my taxi driver told me what I now call, "The Law of the Garbage Truck." Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it. And if you let them, they'll dump it on you. When someone wants to dump on you, don't take it personal. You just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. You'll be happy you did. I guarantee it.

So this was it: The "Law of the Garbage Truck." I started thinking, how often do I let Garbage Trucks run right over me? And how often do I take their garbage and spread it to other people: at work, at home, on the streets? It was that day I said, "I'm not going to do it anymore."
I began to see garbage trucks. Like in the movie "The Sixth Sense," the little boy said, "I see Dead People." Well now "I see Garbage Trucks." I see the load they're carrying. I see them coming to drop it off. And like my Taxi Driver, I don't make it a personal thing; I just smile, wave, wish them well, and I move on.

One of my favorite Football players of all times, Ronaldino, does this every day on the football field. With a smile he always jumps up as quickly as he hits the ground after being tackled. He never dwells on a hit. Ronaldino is always ready to make the next play his best. Good leaders know they have to be ready for their next meeting. Good parents know that they have to welcome their children home from school with hugs and kisses. Leaders and parents know that
they have to be fully present, and at their best for the people they care about.

The bottom line is that successful people do not let Garbage Trucks take over their day. What about you? What would happen in your life, starting today, if you let more garbage trucks pass you by?

Author Unknown.


Sundas said... very true...

Seems like you've been writing a lot since I left...doesn't make me happy...all my pictures have disapeared!!!! :(

Syra said...

:) it's there in the archive; safe n sound.
good to hear from u sundus.

Sundas said...

yeah..good to be in touch...don't worry though, I make it a point to read your blog (as well as Isbahz...she was my parosan for about a year so I owe her that...:P) even if I don't leave comments!!!!

Syra said...

no worries at all :) i m happy to have u as a reader :) came as a pleasant surprise.
will put up some good posts on cats for u :p

Sundas said...

I'd love that!!!!! :)

imran said...

Very well said. But as fas as Ronaldinho is concerned i'd like to share something, i was watching a football match of Spanish Primera Liga while playing from his club i.e. Barcelona, Ronaldinho, due to some issue he stood up for a fight and pushed the player of the opponent team and as far as i could read his lips he was not saying good words.
So as far as i think there is no angel among us. There is a little garbage truck in every one.