Friday, 22 June 2007

If love is pure, it never ends

Marraige seems to be the talk of the year.Recently I was having a chit chat with one of my friends about it. She was drilling the thought into my head, that the charm of marraige and the love one feels for a spouse more or less ends within a year or so. I gave it a thought and 7 words came to my mind "If Love is pure, it never ends", and I reasoned
With the passage of time one may not feel intensely, and the madness may subdue, but love evolves into care,warmess and security.

37 comments:

Saira said...

i agree but if your love is pure it never ends only if your beloved's love for you is pure too and gives u the same warmth and care; And it becomes even easier to end if you get purer love from someone else :)

Saira Star said...

if the former case stands, the latter is ruled out :)

Saira Star said...

yeah, for love to last it has to be mutual.

Xunaira said...

I think what you're referring to as love is actually infatuation which grows into love with the passage of time.

Saira Star said...

infatuation is a step towards love;
crush->infatuation->love :)
love is an umbrella term, it includes trust,care,a special feeling, it takes time to establish, once it's there it never ends...i think this would require another seperate posting, so watch out zoonie

imran said...

I absolutly agree with Xunaira. This is exactly what i think about what love is. and saira since you are a cricket fanatic. You should also have a saperateblog for criket. What doyou think about that.

Sana Jawad said...

well I think the monotonous in life makes the relationships boring....so there should be something innovative in life from time to time to make it interesting

Syra said...

i totally agree with u sana, the couple has to make an effort to keep the charm going :)

Syra said...

imran,i will be using this blog for all my interests including cricket..i used to be a cricket fanatic, not anymore..but thanx for the suggestion bro.

imran said...

crush sometimes remians a crush throgh out one's life. It doesn't always lead to love.

Syra said...

indeed! likewise infatuation may not lead to love either.

imran said...

one more thing
if u come to know that some one has a crush on you. You feel quite nice. dont you?

Syra said...

:) indeed

syed said...

I believe 21st century has very much changed the definition of love. This century's love has demands attached to make it live forever. As a guy I believe my partner should give respect and care. And I have to give her care and respect in return. This is how what we call "love" works. However love do also keep "some" room for mistakes.

imran said...

yes bro you seem quite practical!!!
But I'll have to agree that this is one of the most acurate defination of love.

Shahrukh said...

yes true love never dies becase the girl keeps on changing :P
aik bomb kay badd aik aur bomb shell so it keps on going
thanks to god thats he made so many pritty girls so that we can fall in love again and again to make the saying come true that true love never dies........ :)

Shahrukh said...

that was my theory when i was 15 yre old :)
but its different
i believe its all about heart and mind if ure heart and mind are satisfied and relaxedd thn true love stays 4 goood
its all about the connection between hearts and minds :) :)
disconnecte ho sakta hay becase net bahot slow hay lolzz

Syra said...

OMG!!!! shahrukh is that you talking..lolz!! a copy of this is going to mama and your fiance, they will fix u up :p

Saira said...

im not sure if love exists or not ... but the madness does !!! and its devastating ! :S ... :)

and i wish we had more "pretty" men too :S .. :O ...:)

Syra said...

it seems that love is only fantacized in songs, and talked about in books and movies but Have faith girl, it does exist :)
God's love and parents love exists without a doubt, and it's endless, because its PURE!

Xunaira said...

okay so shahrukh...part of me still believes in the theory you used to believe in at the age of 15 and see i'm not 15 anymore :P...
and saira there are loads of pretty men ;)...bus aik din you'll come across one when the lights go out and you're sitting at your office's reception:D:D:D:D

Saira said...

whati meant to say was that i wish like men just the outer beauty was enough for us (i.e women) to be attracted to a man,cos every time the lights come back again i end up being grossed out even at the 'prettiest' of men. :)

Xunaira said...

o saira come on relax...try to take life a little easy...a little less seriously...actually...i saw that syra's blogs are way too serious...so i thought let's lighten up the mood :)...

Saira said...

all the comments i have posted were suppose to be funny, i was using the sarcastic humour for men :S:S:S ...nobody understood the humour in them :S, i guess i have obscure sense of humour :S:S:S :( ... :)

Syra said...

ahhh...the search for a pure hearted man continues....:p

Saira said...

...have a VERY obscure ...*

Saira said...

dont be searching ... just make the lights go out as many times as u want and before they come back, disappear ... now this is serious, im not kidding :P ... :)

Syra said...

yeh tau roz hee hota hai :p

Saira said...

have your fun and then disappear :P .. and roz is good ... for a healthy heart :P:P:P

Xunaira said...

o saira!!! that was fantastic!!!! :D:D:D:D:D

Xunaira said...

by the way syra? roz? how many times do the lights go out in a day, hmmm? and how come i didn't know? :P

Syra said...

my light doesn't go out :p
and i heard because of somebody(ahem, ahem) lights are out in dps the whole day long

Attique said...

Love? Is this thing even real? Seriously.

PS: That's what I used to think of it 15 years back, that's what I still think today.

Syra said...

attique,if you start believing in it, it will exist :)

Attique said...

But wouldn't that make it artificial?

Syra said...

you don't have to be rigid into forcing yourself to believe in it, rather be flexible enough..having faith in something doesn't make it artificial..do i make myself clear?

Attique said...

YES SIR!... ma'am. Crystal clear!